Category Archives: midlife crisis

My Butt is Not Broken

Posted on September 8, 2020 by nematomorph

I have a new health plan. I had to pick it myself. Off of the NY health exchange. It was a scary process. I tried to make sure that our PCPs were in network. That we could go to the … Continue reading →

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Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes

Posted on January 5, 2020 by nematomorph

I did not make any resolutions for the new year. That being said, there is something that feels new on January first. The feeling that all of the wrongs can be righted. That that an incorrect path taken can be … Continue reading →

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Electrified

Posted on November 26, 2019 by nematomorph

  Last week I made a dentist appointment. When I called they asked if I wanted to come the following day. I told them no. I needed more time to get mentally prepared. I made the appointment for this week. … Continue reading →

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Ages and Ages

Posted on October 19, 2019 by nematomorph

Last week we volunteered at the Harvest Festival at my Aunt’s church. The Harvest Festival markets itself as the North Fork’s largest yard sale. I believe this to be true. Pretty much as soon as the Festival ends, the church … Continue reading →

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PT

Posted on October 6, 2019 by nematomorph

  I have been going to physical therapy for a couple of weeks now. I began going when I found myself unable to properly put my bra on anymore. Despite shooting pain down my arm and the inability to move … Continue reading →

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Wet February

Posted on February 4, 2019 by nematomorph

So I decided, after an alcohol infused December, that I should partake in dry January. The premise is basically that during January there is no alcohol consumption. There are a couple of reasons why I do this. One is that … Continue reading →

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Dead Bunnies & HIPAA Violations

Posted on December 4, 2018 by nematomorph

Earlier this week it was cold but at least the wind was not blowing. I really wanted to get out for a run so I waited until around 10:00 a.m. because maybe it would be warmer and finally got myself … Continue reading →

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What Hawaii Taught Me

Posted on August 2, 2018 by nematomorph

I moved to Hawaii a long time ago. I did not really want to move here. I did not have visions of palm trees swaying. I thought that the Big Island was Oahu. I did not know what hula really … Continue reading →

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For Real

Posted on July 11, 2018 by nematomorph

  The talk of moving back to NY has been going on at my place for over ten years. And the problem is that, there is no solution. My significant other’s entire family is here, in Hawaii, as is his … Continue reading →

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Floating

Posted on May 29, 2018 by nematomorph

Yesterday was the lantern floating ceremony at Ala Moana Beach Park. It has been going on for some time and yesterday was the third time we attended. We had a grand plan to pick up our lantern and then hoof … Continue reading →

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