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Tag Archives: relationship
Desperately Seeking Something
Our son is on spring break this week. And I am embracing the selfishness of the week. I do not have to worry about frantic calls from school requesting I bring some forgotten item. I did not go food shopping … Continue reading
Posted in family, Hawaii, midlife crisis, Relationships, Uncategorized
Tagged church, community, Hawaii, mid life crisis, relationship, relationships, religion
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Worst One
So I confirmed the other day my dad has not passed away. He is not in a comatose state in a facility. As a matter of fact he was described to me as “doing pretty good.” I know that this … Continue reading
Posted in Aging, Hawaii, midlife crisis, Relationships, Uncategorized
Tagged family, Hawaii, mid life crisis, relationship, worry
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Ain’t Nobody Fresher than my MotherF*ing Click
There was unrest at the University of Missouri this week. There were protests about the administration’s failure to address race issues. It had apparently been going on for years. And then there was this weird incident where a woman employed … Continue reading
Posted in family, Hawaii
Tagged Click, Dad, family, Hawaii, Missouri, relationship, timey wimey
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Beards and Beers
After writing about my time spent at Borders last week, I was thinking about some of the people that I met while working there. Many, many of them honestly seemed to exist only at the store. Maybe only in the … Continue reading
Posted in Hawaii, Relationships
Tagged bald, books, Borders, change, cheating, drinking, Hawaii, relationship
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Timey Wimey
Lately, I just feel done with Hawaii. Collective gasps can be heard from all the people who have dreamed of coming here. Dipping their toes in the blue, blue waters of Waikiki. Sipping Mai Tai’s at Duke’s. Lounging poolside. Viewing … Continue reading
Posted in Hawaii, New York, Relationships
Tagged family, Hawaii, mother, New York, relationship, sadness, time
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Running Through the Cloud
I often run during lunch at work. Everyone asks if it is too hot. Sometimes it is. Like yesterday. But most times it is fine. I like to get out. To get away from the office for a bit. When … Continue reading
Posted in Hawaii, New York, Relationships
Tagged East Marion, great grandfather, home, memories, New York, pipe, relationship, running, smells
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Animal Thoughts
I was feeling out of sorts this morning. Our mail from our old place had been showing up at our new place with those yellow address forwarding stickers on it. Showing up for like a week. Then we hit a … Continue reading
Posted in Hawaii, Relationships
Tagged attraction, chatty, Hawaii, love, relationship, running, sweaty
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I Am Not Married
Shocking, right, that title? Here I am, closer to 50 years old than 40, raising a child in a committed relationship that for all intents and purposes resembles a marriage except that it isn’t. For me, personally, this does not … Continue reading
Posted in Hawaii, Uncategorized
Tagged children, commitment, divorce, family, marriage, mother, parenting, relationship, say yes to the dress
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End of the World
Today, Veteran’s Day, is my father’s birthday. The good thing about that is that it is really easy to remember. Despite that, it got to a point in the day where I just about forgot to make the call. My … Continue reading
Posted in Hawaii, New York, Relationships
Tagged birthday, family, father, home, relationship, sadness, second coming, weather
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Lonelily
My friend and co-worker recently left town. She had left her position about a month before actually hitting the road. I think that I can say that of all the wonderful folks who have filled that particular position in my … Continue reading
Posted in Aging, Hawaii
Tagged golden lion tamarin monkey, Hawaii, lonely, mid life crisis, npr, relationship, sad, soul searching
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Aloha Hawaii, Aloha New York 