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Tag Archives: mother
Month
It’s been a month. A month since the election. A month since I’ve been able to run. A month of increasing virus rates. So long and so short. It could be a year instead. But only a month. We Thanksgivinged … Continue reading
Timey Wimey
Lately, I just feel done with Hawaii. Collective gasps can be heard from all the people who have dreamed of coming here. Dipping their toes in the blue, blue waters of Waikiki. Sipping Mai Tai’s at Duke’s. Lounging poolside. Viewing … Continue reading
Posted in Hawaii, New York, Relationships
Tagged family, Hawaii, mother, New York, relationship, sadness, time
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I Am Not Married
Shocking, right, that title? Here I am, closer to 50 years old than 40, raising a child in a committed relationship that for all intents and purposes resembles a marriage except that it isn’t. For me, personally, this does not … Continue reading
Posted in Hawaii, Uncategorized
Tagged children, commitment, divorce, family, marriage, mother, parenting, relationship, say yes to the dress
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I Hate Cooking/I Love Cooking
For some months now, whenever I talk to my mom on the phone on the weekends, we usually end up talking about cooking. She actually likes to cook although she has little to no confidence in her cooking. If she … Continue reading
Posted in Hawaii, Parenting
Tagged bitter melon, children, cooking, egg fruit, farmer's market, Hawaii, lotus root, ma'o, mother, old friends
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Stuffing Nirvana
I love Thanksgiving. It is my favorite holiday of the season. I like it because I dictate how I want to spend it. There is no gift giving pressure. It is fairly leisurely. Basically, it’s all good. I am a … Continue reading
Posted in Hawaii, Parenting
Tagged family, grandmother, gravy, Hawaii, love, mother, New York, parenting, stuffing, thanksgiving, vegetarian
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Honolulu Marathon: To Run or Not to Run
This past weekend I ran a half marathon. It was the longest distance I have run in a year. The weekend before I had tested the running waters by doing 10 miles. On that run, I had felt good. It … Continue reading
Posted in Hawaii
Tagged Hawaii, honolulu marathon, marathon, mother, Paula Bender, running, stubborn, turnaround
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Family
I have been thinking about family a bit lately. It helps that tomorrow is my Mom’s 70th birthday. I spoke to her today. She recently returned from North Carolina where she had driven down to pick up her new puppy. … Continue reading
Posted in Parenting, Relationships
Tagged adopted family, birthday, family, love, mother, sister
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Anniversary
My significant other informed me this past Saturday that Sunday was the nine year anniversary of our first date. This was news to me. I am bad with dates. I have a hard time remembering whose birthday comes first in … Continue reading
Posted in Hawaii, New York, Relationships
Tagged cauliflower, croteaux, grown up grilled cheese, Hellenic, iced coffee, Love Lane Kitchen, mother, mythical summer, palm reading, Shinn
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Binding Ties
I am not married. Some people think that I am. I have been in a relationship now for over seven years. It seems that we may be close to the nine year mark (after a brief consultation.) We have lived … Continue reading
Posted in Parenting, Relationships
Tagged children, commitment, divorce, marriage, mother, relationship
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Free and Alone
I am, right now, completely alone; completely alone with Shelly-my car. I could drive anywhere. I could leave right now and tell no one where I am going. The world is my oyster. I have not been completely alone for … Continue reading
Posted in Hawaii
Tagged alone, Hawaii, imu, mother, no responsibility, slippahs, the descendants, wine
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